Last week was tough, and know that we are praying with and for you. What we as a community, city, and state experienced last week was traumatic. If you break down crying today (or any day), it is okay. We are coming off the fight mode and survive mode and it will take sometime for our brains and bodies to process what we just went through. Give yourself a ton of grace this week and even into next week. We are saying a ton of prayers for you all today, this week, and into next week.
This poem was passed to me on Sunday, and it is just another reminder that even though we all went through it in different stages, and even if you do not think yours was as bad as someone else's, it is still important to talk about, share, and most importantly listen. Talking, sharing, and listening lets our minds process it all and talking and sharing with others helps the healing process begin. If you need a listening ear we are all here for you and each other, do not hesitate to reach out.
"You’re not imagining it, nobody seems to want to talk right now.
Messages are brief and replies late.
Talk of catch ups on zoom are perpetually put on hold.
Group chats are no longer pinging all night long.
It’s not you.
It’s everyone.
We are spent.
We have nothing left to say.
We are tired of saying ‘I miss you’ and ‘I cant wait for this to end’.
So we mostly say nothing, put our heads down and get through each day.
You’re not imagining it.
This is a state of being like no other we have ever known because we are all going through it together but so very far apart.
Hang in there my friend.
When the mood strikes, send out all those messages and don’t feel you have to apologize for being quiet.
This is hard.
No one is judging."
Donna Ashworth
Author of poetry book, ‘to the women’