Dear Friends:
The Catholic media has been abuzz lately over a recent statement from the Vatican that prohibits clergy from blessing same-sex unions among Catholics. There is much that can be said about this, and I will add my own two cents worth in another writing later. But among the issues that it raises are the matters of just what an official church blessing is, what it does, and what it's for. And whose blessing is it after all?
The first thing to be noted is that God is free to bless whoever and whatever God wishes to. Nobody in the Church is the gatekeeper for dispensing divine graces upon people and things. That seems so basic a premise that it ought not need to be said, but churches have a very sad and lengthy history of presuming to be the arbiters of who's in and who's out of God's favor.
A second thing to note is that a church blessing is not magic or superstition, though it can be easily confused with those things. The official Book of Blessings in the Catholic church runs to a few hundred pages and includes ritual blessings for everything from animals to farm machinery to furniture. What do we think we are doing when we impart a blessing on a piece of jewelry, such as a wedding ring?
Further, when blessings occur in the context of church, they are never the personal blessing of the person speaking. They are essentially acts of a whole community. As a priest, I never bless anything in my own name. (I'm not sure how much help that would be in any case!)
So, what exactly makes for an official church blessing? Well, here's my best shot at a definition. Similar to the seven sacraments (but not equal to them), a blessing focuses the minds and hearts of the Christian community upon a tangible, physical something/someone in order to pledge ourselves to use it for the greater glory of God and the benefit of that community. The object of a blessing is not transformed into something other than what it was before, but it is dedicated as a symbol to encourage prayer and to remind us of the One who is the giver of all gifts. A blessed statue is not something other than a slab of stone or plaster, but it now bears a certain kind of "depth" that allows it to be an entre into something sacred and transcendent for those who engage it.
Blessing prayers, like any others, become cheapened when they are seen as empty rituals performed without thought. It is good to ponder prayerfully exactly what they mean for us.
Fr. Mike
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