A Message from Carolyn McKinnis,
Director of Children and Youth Catechetics
Spring is one of my favorite seasons of the year. It’s a time for new beginnings, hope, and new life. There is nothing like opening the house again after a long winter or enjoying the fresh, crisp outdoor air while watching the trees and flowers begin to bud, adding a little more color around us day by day! In addition to the marvels of nature, I love the spring season at St. Tom’s; new life surrounds us in the Easter season and the celebration of the Sacraments.
As many of you know, our elementary youth made their First Reconciliation and their First Holy Communion this last month. These joy-filled occasions followed months of preparation by our parents and LifeGuides. On one particular afternoon, my son and I were practicing the Act of Contrition and breaking down the lines of the prayer. He was finding his own words to summarize what he was saying to God as he prayed. When we got to the line, “I firmly intend, with your help…”, I was stunned. Through those simple words of a routine prayer, we teach our youth, and I was reminded that in uniting our will to God’s will, He acts through us in powerful, unimaginable ways.
What a timely reminder, especially now, spring of 2021. After months of isolation, physical distancing, and feeling boxed in, I was reminded that viruses don’t isolate or box in God’s will. As I question, where is this virus going? How will it continue to unfold or wrap up? I am reminded that God knows, and His plans continue to be for our good. God is with us, acting first in our lives, then it’s up to us how we respond. “It was not you who chose me, but I who chose you...”
As we celebrate Mother’s Day, I reflect on my journey as a mom. Around seven years ago, Father Cassian heard my confession and encouraged me to go on a retreat, something I hadn’t done since high school! That was some of the best life-changing advice I have been given. As a mom, I have experienced the pure joy and indescribable happiness of motherhood. I also know the moments of exhaustion and uncertainty. Going on that first retreat, I had time to reflect, re-energize, and re-focus on my vocation without worrying about home life.
Especially after this last year, I encourage all mothers to go on a retreat. I didn’t realize until Father Cassian suggested it that yearly retreats are a healthy practice. Like an annual check-up with a medical doctor, it’s a yearly check-up for our soul, a time to examine our branches, maybe prune some, and definitely nourish the roots to begin anew.