December Marriage Enrichment Tool:
Love Smarter
Every person experiences love and expresses it in a unique way. Too often, we instinctively give love the way we most like to receive it, but that may not be the way the other feels most loved. To be more effective in loving your spouse, you will want to learn how your spouse wants and needs to be loved, and more importantly, what makes them feel in love.
Perhaps your spouse's love language is words of affirmation or encouragement, or physical touch? Maybe it's quality time spent together, receiving gifts or thoughtfulness or acts of service. These frames of reference are adapted from Gary Chapman’s Five Love Languages. When your spouse relates to you in your primary “love language”, you feel more connected, nurtured, and affirmed, hence more in love.
Discover your spouse’s love language and intentionally choose to love them in that way today. You will undoubtedly put a smile on their face and enrich your marriage.
In Real Life
My husband appreciates when I bring him a little gift of chocolate or something from the store, not so much because of the gift itself, but because I thought of him while I was running errands. In the same way, he makes sure to leave room in our weekend schedules for us to spend time together which is my preferred love language.
Learn how you can express your love in a way that will make your spouse feel loved.
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