Flexibility:   Having to change the dates or meeting sites for meetings, choosing between in class or distance learning, limiting the number of participants or postponing appointments are all part of the new norm. I know we live in a culture that values consistency and efficiency.   “Yes, that’s the plan, but remember things could change,” is something we are not accustomed to hearing.  Now it’s part of most of our conversations.   As much as I might not like it, I know that I must get used to it.  Join me in accepting this new reality.  

     We will be less stressed and more appreciative of things we are able to accomplish. This does enable us to be present to one another in a new way, really being present and attentive to be the persons we are blessed to be within the present moment. Remember tomorrow’s gathering with that person or group might be postponed or cancelled yet one more time.  Be flexible, be at peace and be happy. 

Responsibility:   There is no doubt that the inconvenience of wearing a face mask is the responsible thing to do, along with good hygiene, and social distancing.  We also must be responsible in deciding which social events to attend.  Large social gatherings are considered “superspreader events” of the COVID-19 virus.  This was highlighted by the report of a wedding in Maine that is linked to 177 COVID cases and seven deaths.  Since the beginning of the pandemic we have seen clusters of infections on university campuses, conferences, and funerals.  In our parish listening sessions, parishioners requested that we host more social gatherings.  This I understand – you and I are longing to be together.  Coming to Mass and having to social distance and not being able to visit with each other, shake hands or hug each other is frustrating. But the responsible thing to do is to avoid all such physical contact.  As pastor, I commit to being responsible for my sake and yours.  This includes, of course, making sure we take all the necessary precautions here at the Church.  This might not be the popular thing to do but it at least assures us that we are doing everything we can to remain safe and healthy.  

      I must remind you that outside of the church, each one of us must take responsibility for ourselves, especially as family units.   Beyond the places where these rules are required, it is up to each family where and when you will wear masks, social distance, practice good hygiene and whether you participate in social events and with how many participants.  As church we have no control over which social events you participate in, whom you host in your house or which circle of friends you are comfortable with and are willing to come into close contact.  

     I encourage you to be responsible, make wise decisions and above all, keep healthy. I have tried to do this for the last few months, choosing to be in close contact with a circle of friends, that slowly has been expanding.  This I have done intentionally and cautiously.  Let us be supportive by being responsible for ourselves and to each other.