During a "normal" year, most of my siblings and I would be gathered at my sister's home in Minnetonka for Thanksgiving dinner, together with their families. That won't be happening in 2020, and I think we are all agreed that it's the right decision. That will be a cause for disappointment, surely, but this is most certainly not a normal year. We have all been enduring a long-term, low-grade time of sorrow and disruption since early spring. And perhaps it's because it hasn't been particularly abrupt (with the exception of the George Floyd incident) that we may not be entirely aware of the toll that it takes upon the spirit. Just as a healthy Christian life is nurtured over the course of weeks and years, so also the threats to that life are compounded by prolonged periods of deadening and doubt. We will be wise to be alert to the ways that this unusual time may threaten to make us depressed, impatient, uncharitable, and indifferent. I feel it myself occasionally, and I recognize it as a summons to renewal.
As winter sets in, there are things that anybody can be doing in order to keep us from sluggishness. The church itself provides a daily regimen of Liturgy of the Hours, i.e. three, four, or five times a day to be deliberate about stepping away from monotony in order to pray for just a few minutes. It may not seem like a grand gesture, but it may be what can see some of us through. That's a prayer form that is required for clergy, but it belongs to and is encouraged for all of us, and you can find it on line or in print with ease. Many Catholics find regular solace in the rosary as well, maybe several times a day.
Spiritual reading is another tonic for prolonged times of drudgery. And by "spiritual" here I don't necessarily mean "pious" or "churchy" or narrowly "theological." Some of the most soul-stirring books I've ever read have been produced by people who never intended them to be specifically religious. One of my favorite novelists is Charles Dickens, and I regard most of his work as profoundly spiritual because they speak to the the most basic questions of what it means to be human. (And they are usually funny in a dark sort of way).
There is also a host of encouragement on Catholic media, whether on TV/Cable or online. Here, though, one has to be cautious about who and what identifies itself as "Catholic," because anybody can do that. There are sites that are deliberately combative, judgmental, or even hateful. But there are others that are soothing to the soul. We have a whole staff of faith formation professionals here at Pax who can help you to choose well and wisely about that if you care to ask them.
It will be a season like no other that we have known. Let us pray and stay engaged.
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